But I historically haven't much. It's stressful. They are like little time bombs in the kitchen. Whenever I bake I think about if I really want them in there. I usually grudgingly decide I should offer to let them help me. They gleefully say yes. I sigh. As they noisily drag chairs into the kitchen my pulse quickens and I start thinking, "No! Back! Stay back!". But, by then it's too late and into the kitchen and onto the chairs and into the baking they come. These pictures were taken during some Christmas baking (remember, backlog). Note the careworn expression on my face.
Despite my desperation as I watch flour miss the bowl or salt spill on the floor I do realize one thing: they really, really like it.
(Even if Nico looks like he's in incredible pain. That's joy, man. Pure joy. I know the signs.)
This past week Jacob and I baked some oatmeal cookies while Nico napped. It was genuinely more enjoyable than other baking experiences. Perhaps having just one child to guide helped. One child who has better motor skills. Regardless, Jacob was even up to the task of scooping the dough onto the cookie sheet. I really didn't want him to. And pretty much ached to just do it for him. Despite my ridiculous desire to snatch it out of his hands and do it for him he did a great job.
And I guess that's the point of baking with kids. To teach mom to let go of some control and to let the kids (and moms) know that they are capable of some pretty fun things.
Even if they're not wearing pants. Ever.
So, for now, we'll keep on baking.
8 comments:
"To teach mom to let go of some control..." This isn't so much a problem when I let my kids cook with me, but when I make them clean the playroom by themselves. It takes everything I have not to go in behind them and re-put everything away the way I would have put it away. Then I think having them put it away becomes pretty pointless, yes? Sweet pictures. You're a good mommy.
So very cute and sweet. That control issue is so real! It is hard to let them think they can contribute? Is that the word? Or do moms want to always think they are the best with the best ideas and actions? Is it obvious I am planning a wedding with my daughter?
Thanks, Robyn, I really needed this! My grandsons are beyond precious and it is because they have such marvelous moms who take time with them. Love you all!
VERY well said! I've already been debating as to if I can just make the Valentine sugar cookies myself and then let the kids decorate. I will try and let some control go and have them do some baking too! Thanks for that!
I love this post. It's too true, man. I remember once when Holden was Jacob's age he dumped a cup of cornmeal into the chocolate chip cookies. They actually turned out pretty good. Nice 'n' crunchy. You and your boys are so cute.
Ditto sister.
It's hard to relinquish control, but I'm trying.
And what awesome cookies they were, too! I have been secretly snacking on them for several days now. I HATE HATE HATE letting my kids in the kitchen with me. Maybe it has more to do with flour and sugar messes as the fact that Cadence LICKS EVERYTHING, including her fingers, which she then MUST dip into whatever we are mixing. I Hate it. hate it. I will not will not relinquish control... maybe when she's four. And no longer needs pants. ever.
I totally agree with everything you say in this post!!!
Cooking is great with kids when I am planning on it. WHen they pop in and say they want to help is when I panic. You are great!
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